You’re in a committed relationship and you want to take care of each other. The lack of recognition of the legal status of your relationship makes planning absolutely essential for you. Where will your assets and property end up when you die? And who will make decisions for you if you become temporarily or permanently disabled? If you don’t plan for these events, you are leaving it to be determined by state law, which may have the unintended consequence of ignoring the voice and needs of your significant other. You may not be happy with those results. Life insurance is a great first step, but read on to see why additional planning is recommended for all couples.

Power of Attorney for Healthcare:

Under this document, you name a trusted individual to act as your agent. Your agent will have the authority to act on your behalf in situations where you are incapacitated either temporarily or permanently. The document will express your preferences in regard to organ donation and life support, which will serve as a guide to the appointed agent. Medical doctors and hospitals will look to the appointed agent to make decisions concerning medical treatment and care. Everyone over the age of 18 should have a current Power of Attorney for Healthcare.

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Power of Attorney for Property:

Under this document, you name a trusted individual to act as your agent. Your agent will have the authority to act on your behalf in regard to financial matters. That authority can, but is not always, limited to times when you are unable to take care of your own affairs.  Your agent will be able to pay your bills, manage your finances, investments, real estate and other property on your behalf. The powers can be as broad or limited as you are comfortable with. Every adult should consider having a current Power of Attorney for Property.


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Plan for the unthinkable! If something happens to you, what will happen to your property?  Leaving the distribution of your assets and personal property unplanned can have unintended results. Every Will allows you to choose the persons that will benefit from your assets and appoint the person that will handle your estate.


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Revocable (Living) Trust:

This document is also often referred to as a “living trust” or a “grantor trust”. Unlike a trust that is created by the terms of a Will, a revocable (living) trust exists at the time it is executed. Such a trust can be created by an individual or a couple. For the trust to be the most efficient, assets need to be transferred into the trust during the lifetime of the person(s) creating the trust. If assets are held in the trust it may not be necessary to open a probate estate on your death. If you become disabled and your assets are in the trust, the trustee will be able to use those assets to pay for your care and it will not be necessary for the court to appoint a guardian of your estate. The person(s) creating the trust will be able to freely transfer assets in and out of the trust and to sell assets that are in the trust as long as they are able to manage their own affairs. Because the trust is revocable, the terms of the trust can be amended. There may be other planning benefits to using a trust depending on your particular situation.


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Pet Trust:

You may currently enjoy the company of a pet. What will happen in the event you are unable to care for your pet? Planning for the care of your pet will ensure that this important companion will live out its life with the care and comfort you intended.


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Beneficiary Designations:

Naming beneficiaries and contingent beneficiaries of your life insurance, retirement plans, stocks, investments, real estate or any other accounts or property is important. Unspecified designations may have the unintended consequence of leaving your significant other uncared for or financially insecure. It is recommended that all designations be carefully considered and chosen by the account holder.

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